What is Collaborative Family Law?

Collaborative family law is a process where everyone agrees to work together (to collaborate) to create acceptable solutions that work well for both parties, and without going to court. In the collaborative approach:

  • Both parties agree to stay out of court
  • The emphasis is on creating solutions that address the values and goals of both parties and their children
  • The sole objective is to reach an efficient, fair, comprehensive settlement of all issues.

Creates positive solutions

Divorce doesn't have to be adversarial.

No court appearance required

Resolves disputes without court

Respects all participants

And creates a positive outcome

Frequently Asked Questions

Most of the lawyers in this group are also highly skilled and trained mediators. However, mediation still holds the threat of court action over the participants, and all of the expense, while the collaborative process involves commitment to create a solution without going to court.
In the early 1990s in the United States, there was a growing dissatisfaction with the obvious shortcomings of adversarial litigation (court action) as a way of helping families resolve their disputes. A senior family lawyer practicing in Minneapolis was inspired to formulate a new paradigm called collaborative law.

Collaborative family law has now reached Canada, and a group of individual lawyers in the Okanagan is committed to this new concept.

You may start the Collaborative Process by contacting any of the professionals who will explain how the Process works and assist you in building your team of two Collaborative lawyers, one or two Divorce coaches, and a child specialist and financial specialist as required.
A divorce coach is a mental health professional (such as a psychologist, clinical counsellor, social worker or psychiatrist) who has completed collaborative training. A divorce coach has expertise in family systems, couples in conflict, child psychology and the impact of legal processes in separation. A divorce coach assists the parties and other collaborative team members (especially the parties’ lawyers).

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Who are we?

We are a group of independent lawyers and helping professionals who, although not in partnership, work together in cases that are suitable for the collaborative process and without going to court.
Collaborative Lawyers
Financial Professionals
Divorce Coaches
Child Specialists

Featured Member

Rosemarie Muto, BA, LLB
Rosemarie Muto, BA, LLBFamily Law Mediator
Rosemarie Muto commenced legal practice in Calgary, Alberta, with a general practice law firm.  She then gained experience with the Provincial Government of Alberta as counsel for the Ministry of Children and Family Services and with the Municipality of Calgary as counsel for By-Law Services.  This well-rounded experience has given her an understanding of several practice areas, with an intense focus on court experience as a litigator. Since moving to the Okanagan and commencing practice in 2009 she has focused primarily on litigation, family divorce and relationship breakdown matters.

Having become an accredited mediator through the Law Society of British Columbia, she has now shifted her focus away from litigation to mediation.

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